This is not a fair world. It is indeed completely unfair. And humans are the builders of this kind of world.
Bias, subjective, selfish, greedy, personal preference… each with any extent, contributes and maintains this unfair world.
Obviously, some people have extreme bias on some events or people. With that said, they act subjectively, irrationally, almost without a reason except being SUBJECTIVE.
It is hard to be in such kind of situation. It’s like you’re tied, you’re mistaken, you’re helpless, if not hopeless. I’m sure not everyone of you would be in such situation, but even if you are, for any extent, stay positive. Even if you’re threatened by some people, the number of people who loves you is always more than that.
I am talking to myself as well.
People around me say that I was brought up in a warm and blissful family. Yes, I do. But it doesn’t mean I am such a flower-in-the-greenhouse. I’m LUCKY and BLESSED, I have a pair of perfect parents, a lovable younger sister; and more than that, I have a bunch of friends who love me in different extent, a bunch of colleagues who is always friendly to me. This is me, this is my life, this is the REAL me. So, don’t try to use your rulers to judge me, or bend my role/image.
I’m not used to an ugly world, and I don’t need to unless this is my destiny. And, it is totally not a case that some people have to fill that part for me just because I don’t have that part of experience in my life.
I am me. If you’re lucky enough, you will see the REAL me.
June 5, 2009 at 2:41 pm |
you okay over there? calm… be calm…
毎個人都有不同的觀點與角度,不要介意人家對妳的不認同,因為毎個人就是不同.
不要介意人家對妳的批評,因為毎個人的處事之道也有不同.
不喜歡聴的,嬲過便算了.
忠言有時難入耳,不符合情理確也是令人氣憤填膺.
關心的人有時多說了,是出於關懷.
對事情不清不楚的是多管閒事,聴了也不用放在心上.
take it easy!!
June 7, 2009 at 10:56 pm |
Gwen, 謝謝你的說話。
有時候,的確覺得做人很難。
好的要面對,不好的也要面對。要真正豁達,說易行難。
軟弱的時候,更會想放棄 ── 問人生的意義何在?
想不通時,真的感到人生沒有意義。
但別擔心,我想我會好起來的。